Well it’s actually something you need to loose rather than gain!

You must suffer ‘timidity loss’ in order to become more easily watchable. There is nothing more un-nerving than watching a performer with a severely low level of self belief. If the performer is uneasy, then the audience absorbs this negative energy and feels uneasy too. It’s human nature. It is however magnified in the field of entertainment because most people naturally empathise with someone who is brave enough or stupid enough to get up in front of a group of people and speak, sing or entertain. When it goes wrong people naturally cringe at the thought of a comparable horror ever happening to them.

How do I go through the process of ‘timidity loss’?
I know this might sound old hat so to speak and rather tedious for some people who have become accustomed to the easy come easy go culture we live in but the answer is practice, practice, practice!!

Shock horror!!! 🙁
It’s not just all about the surface i.e. what Joe Public actually see physically, when they watch a performer; no it’s just as much about how you feel inside when you perform. Regardless of your best efforts and acting prowess, if you feel wrong when you are performing, you will look wrong, even if physically you’ve ‘scrubbed up well’!

Working on your inner confidence and sense of self belief is actually even more important than working on your act. Take ginger Spice for example. a girl with relatively low levels of talent but huge levels of self belief, determination and drive. Need I say more? If you want to find out more about how I can help you make a huge difference to your self confidence levels and your singing career then simply join the group of serious subscribers who have signed up for the Partners programme. There are still some free places left so don’t miss out.
Take care and enjoy your talent
Sarah Dennis